Toke Makinwa, the popular On Air Personality, OAP, has opened up on her marriage crisis.
For the first time after her breakup with her husband, Maje Ayida last year, Toke said she was still going through the break up process and that it’s been difficult for her.
Recall that Toke’s 18-month-old marriage to Maje Ayida hit the rocks when the latter impregnated his longtime girlfriend, Anita Solomon.
In her latest VLOG, Toke said she prefers to speak about her marriage from a rational and unemotional stance.
The media personality said, “For those who feel I have not spoken about my marriage, you know what happened last year. It is with good reason. I want to talk about it from a rational point and not an emotional stance. Cos it’s tough.
“If you’ve ever been through a separation, heartbreak or whatever, you know how difficult it is. And this was very public and so I went through a lot of stages and I’m still going through it.
“I can’t sit here and tell you I’m completely whole or this doesn’t affect me anymore. I still feel somewhat shy; I’m trying to come out of my shell about it. Cos I mean you share your life with me and I feel it’s a great disservice to not even talk about it.”
“So in due time, just know I’m going through the process & every week I come here I smile, we connect that doesn’t mean I don’t have my own issues. It’s just that I have chosen not to be a victim. I’ve chosen to just rise above it and just keep rising,” the Rhythm 93.7FM radio presenter stated.